Five Ways to Spin Stress to your AdvantageWe are so used to thinking of stress only in a negative context: words such as “overwhelmed,” “stressed out,” or “anxious” come to mind. However, stress is neither inherently good nor inherently bad. In fact, it is how you deal with stress that determines whether it is positive or negative. The fact is, if you are alive, you will experience stress. If you leave your house in the morning, have a job, nurture meaningful relationships, aspire to be creative, or have a family, you will inevitably go through stressful periods. Yet most would acknowledge that these elements of life are worth the stress. Here are a few ways that stress can be a positive thing in your life: 1. It propels you to get practical things accomplished. 2. It can help clear your head. (Granted, if you are unprepared for a presentation, or if you have a specific phobia of public speaking, this might cause additional stress and create foggy thinking. Remember that the key is keeping stress from getting too overwhelming and inhibiting your performance.) 3. It protects you (literally!) In a less life-threatening context, negative feelings (or stress) sometimes inform you that a change should be made. For example, if you are unhappy with your living situation, stress may motivate you to look for new roommates when the opportunity arrives. 4. It gives you energy. It is important to be as positive as you can when you get stressed to utilize the energy it affords. If you are stressed for a first date or a job interview, remember that it is a good thing. You have the opportunity to meet a new love interest, or to potentially find a new job. Try to use the stress to your advantage not by disregarding it, but by having a positive attitude. 5. It makes you more creative.
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